Big words, what the heck am I talking about? Good question, glad you asked.
Have you ever argued your perspective until you were blue in the face? Did you accomplish anything? Maybe you felt better about getting it off your chest.
Now, did you try to argue the opposing perspective? Not just give it lip service, but genuinely put effort into arguing its merits? And the trickier parts, being aware of its drawbacks while doing so and not poisoning the well?
(Post in Progress)